Proper Perspective

~Psalm 101:2~ I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way. O when wilt thou come unto me? I will walk within my house with a perfect heart.

David, the king of Israel, a man after God’s own heart, a lover of the word, and a passionate pursuer of God’s glory, wrote those words. He was concerned about his behavior and his heart as he walked within his house.

That prompts me to examine my own heart and behavior in the home.

As a homeschooling, babysitting, blogging, writing, cleaning, cooking, shopping, chauffeuring, praying, stay at home mom- I die daily.

I have to.

I can’t chase after my own plan and dreams and forsake the needs of those that God has entrusted me with caring for.

When the day goes opposite of my agenda, and I feel so very unproductive, I can respond with peace and joy, or in frustration and anger. I don’t always get it right. The difference is where my mind and will is at.

I have to surrender my day to the Lord and pray for the right heart attitude to serve these precious people with humility. And I have to be intentional to put my mind on  three things:

1) It’s worth it! Whatever you have to give up, or put on hold, to minister to the souls God puts in your life, it’s totally worth it. Jesus is worthy, and the eternal rewards for a faithful and fruitful woman definitely outweigh the temporal sacrifices.

~Colossians 3:24~ Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

2) Your labor is not in vain! You may not see the fruit of your time, talent, treasures, or truth, this side of heaven, but God’s word doesn’t return void, it accomplishes what He wills it to. What you’re doing today matters!

~1Corinthians 15:58~ Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.

3) This is just for a season! Before you know it your kids will be grown and gone, your house will be quiet and clean, and you’ll ache for those babies to be back in your arms. Enjoy the season you’re in!

~Ecclesiastes 3:1~ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

So when it feels like they’re pushing you to the brink of exhaustion or insanity, and your to-do list gets buried under homeschool or homework, be intentional to think on those three things- It’s worth it, It’s not in vain, and It’s just for a season! 

Even if you’re not in the exact same situation as me, I know you can relate. Dying to self is something we all are called to do.

~Luke 9:23~ And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.

Dying to self daily is painful, but necessary in the sanctification process as God conforms us to the image of Christ.

Praise the Lord we don’t have to try to do it on our own. God supplies the grace, peace, joy, and strength that we need to lay aside our will to follow his.  His Spirit within us provides the power to obey his word and glorify him in every area of our lives.  We just have to rely on the Spirit, rest in the Lord, and remain in his word.

Here’s a great prayer to help us on those trying days:

~Psalm 143:7-8~ Hear me speedily, O LORD: my spirit faileth: hide not thy face from me, lest I be like unto them that go down into the pit. Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.

Practical tips for proper perspective:

1)Proper perspective comes from prayer. Ask God for help!

2)Proper perspective comes from the word. Take a few minutes to read or listen to the Bible!

3) Proper perspective comes from remembering why you do what you do. Be purposed to turn your thoughts from yourself to your tribe!

4) Proper perspective comes from praising the Lord. Recount your blessings and list them back to the Lord. Turn on the praise music and rejoice in the Lord!

5) Proper perspective comes from lifting your eyes up from yourself and your problems to Jesus as Lord, Savior, Redeemer, and Friend!

6) Proper perspective comes from being filled with the Spirit. Repent of any sin, do the things above, and let the Spirit rule your heart and home!



28 thoughts on “Proper Perspective

  1. This is a thought-provoking post about how our perspective changes everything. Being a mom of little kids can feel overwhelming, unfruitful, and lonely, but it is some of the greatest kingdom-building work to be done! Thank you for sharing!

  2. It’s hard sometimes for me to take my eyes off of myself and turn them to The Lord. Sometimes I focus on my weakness and downfalls, forgetting that He provides grace and redemption. I also sometimes focus on how what I’m doing is (or isn’t!) benefiting me, rather than seeing how I am serving others. Thank you for the reminders to change my perspective. What a good God we have!

    1. Amen Sister! He is so good! I can totally relate to that. Praise God for his patience with me! Proper perspective takes diligence, a purposed and intentional choice to think biblically, putting everything into perspective based on God’s word, will, and ways. It’s something we have to work at, but with consistent time with Jesus in the word and in prayer, we can do it!

  3. I needed this yesterday! I had to remind myself that my son is 12 and it will only be a few years before he is grown and gone and I would miss his shenanigans. I’m sorry to say that after an exhausting day at work, I did not respond with perfect grace and had to apologize for getting frustrated with him. Thank you for sharing!

    1. We all fall short and have moments/days like that. The important thing is that we repent and ask for forgiveness when we blow it. This speaks volumes! 🙂

    1. Praise the Lord! Proper perspective is a timeless truth. It will never go out of style. We’ll constantly be in seasons and settings that will test our patience, stretch our faith, and push the boundaries of our comfort zones. The alternative would be an extremely boring existence! Thanks for reading and commenting, I appreciate the feedback. Blessings to ya! 🙂

    1. I know exactly how you feel. The people in our homes are entrusted to us to shepherd for a short time compared to the rest of their lives. Women who need what we write- they will still be out there when our kids are grown. My counsel is to enjoy the season you’re in, write when you can, share when you can, but give your best to the disciples in your own home. It’s a worthy investment! And never forget Phil.1:6. He started that work in you, he’ll finish it. He’ll give you opportunities to use the gift he’s given. Patience, prayer, and perspective… Blessings to ya! 🙂

    1. It can be super difficult to maintain the proper perspective. That’s why prayer and relying on the Spirit is so important. Apart from Christ we can do nothing, but with him we can do all things. Having the ministry mindset like Jesus had, in all we do, will make the messy and mundane seem worthwhile acts of worship. 🙂

  4. I often need to hear this when things get really busy around here. I probably needed to read it yesterday when I was having to clean my house for youth group but really wanted to take a nap instead.

  5. I needed this today: “Your labor is not in vain! You may not see the fruit of your time, talent, treasures, or truth, this side of heaven, but God’s word doesn’t return void, it accomplishes what He wills it to. What you’re doing today matters!” Thank you!

    1. I agree! Trying to tackle our day without asking the Lord to help us through it is setting ourselves up for failure. Have a blessed day in the Lord! 🙂

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